Confessions of a Shameless Slut

I may have game, but I have no shame

I confess: I am a shameless slut. In itself, confessing that is shameless. But what does that mean really? I suppose it depends largely upon what one has been taught to be ashamed of.

Most women- most of society- abhor the idea of the slut. The slut being a woman who freely engages in lots of sex- passionate and perhaps promiscuous sex. Lusty sex. Forget love. Forget procreation. No obligations indicated. Sex purely for the pleasure of the flesh. That is what a slut wants: sex that she desires for no other reason than that she desires it. Its idea makes her wet. Uninhibited lusty sex makes her come and come hard.

Modern women have been raised to embrace our sexuality - to an extent. Unlike my female ancestors, I did not emerge into adulthood with the idea that I needed to wait until marriage. I didn’t think that I should just lie there and take it. I knew I could enjoy sex. I understood that sex was pleasurable long before I had it.

While the idea of doing it because that is what was necessary to fulfill your sexual relationship obligation is still very much alive (I know many women who have sex simply out of wifely duty ), I do believe that society has given women an ok to enjoy sex. Vanilla sex, of course. Sex built upon mutual respect (respect as defined by the status quo). Sex where your male partner cares about you in the conventionally acceptable manner.

He wants you to have an orgasm. He will stroke you and sweetly and passionately kiss you. He will fondle your breasts and caress your bottom. Aw, isn't that nice? This is the sex that a socially acceptable modern woman may enjoy. She may have it frequently with her partner. She may have it even if she isn't married (although she likely has dated her partners a number of times).

But the slut, she is different. She fucks many people. Perhaps she juggles multiple partners. She may engage in casual sex. She may really push the limit and fuck multiple people at the same time or have extramarital sex. She may want it rough. She may want some slapping, a little choking, maybe a bit of degradation. She doesn't fear being used by men. She wants to be used. Maybe, she is using them.

Now the conventional narrative is that she really doesn't want it. This slut is perverse. There is something wrong with her. Clearly, she has daddy issues or she was abused somehow. This is unnatural behavior that must stem from some sort of reason. Women simply do not really want this type of sex. She may say that she does but no, she really doesn't. How could she possibly know what she really wants?

I know, I know: fuck that noise.

To be shameless is to take ownership of your desires no matter how dark they seem. A shameless slut respects her own mind and her needs. Conventions of respectability be damned. A shameless slut is not a victim of her desires or her environment. She is in control of her sexuality. A shameless slut enjoys sex without the restrictions of social boundaries. free of the constraints placed upon her to control her. She knows her value and treasures herself. Her body is her temple and she seeks to show self-reverence with libidinous delight. She invites others to join her in her worship of her body.

A shameless slut is woman unbound, reveling in the spirituality of physical pleasure. She seeks to be immersed in her sexuality, conscious of its multidimensional fluency. She knows that the denial of her innate sexual self that is the true perversity.

To admit to being a shameless slut is freeing.

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